Mamalette
Lying there like a log of wood
Acting like you are a born again or a saint in bed
Nigerian women complain that their men love sex, most wives would tell you that the only reason why they indulge in the act is to please oga or to make babies. Follow us
Now not to spoil the excitement, let us move onto the top 5 mistakes that women make when it comes to having sex with their spouses.
No 1: Acting like you are doing him a favour
Let’s be honest. There are times when one is too tired and unwilling to indulge in sex and there are other times when you don’t want to do it simply because you are lazy. One major mistake is to express this feeling or to act like you are doing oga a favour.
Most men find sex unappealing when their wives act like it is a chore, most probably if oga decides to manage and do it, you will notice that it is over in less than 2 minutes.
Even if you don’t feel like it, make an effort to appear enthusiastic.
No 2: Worrying about your flaws
While you always want to look your best while making love to your husband. You can’t always look perfect all the time. Feeling shy about your pregnancy tummy or widening waist should not get in the way of enjoying sex with your husband.
If you’re afraid to be seen naked, to have sex with the lights on, or to let oga touch you in certain places, it definitely manifests as bad sex.
Most likely oga’s mind is not even there. All he can see is the beautiful woman he married. So drop your inhibitions while having sex and just give it your all.
No 3: Refusing to give head
I have heard too many Nigerian women say, ‘Tufiakwa, me I can never give head o!” But guess what? One man’s poison is another man’s meat.
The typical Nigerian man, who loves ‘head,’ will not hesitate to find someone who can give it to him on the outside. Why do think all those old sugar daddies love young girls?
So madam, if oga has stopped asking for head, be very worried o. Learn how to become the ‘head’ mistress and research some oral sex tips and give him the best head of his life. Oga will cherish you even more if you do this.
No 4: Lying there like a log of wood
No matter your size, the most boring thing a woman can do in bed, is lie there like a log of wood. While we would not tell you to watch porn, but sex scenes you must have seen in some of your favorite Nollywood or international movies will highlight how pleasurable it is when both parties are actively involved in the act.
When you are passive, it is not going to be fun for either of you. You can make an effort to take control some of the time. Initiate sex, moan, get on top, tell oga what you want him to do to you etc.
No 5: Acting like you are a born again or a saint in bed
Some women even after numerous children, still behave like they are virgins. They still wear items of clothing while having sex, they get shy when their spouse try to introduce new styles or try new things etc.
Some still look at having sex for pleasure as a sin. Hello? You are married are you not. There is no sin in pleasing your husband.
Drop that act o! Spontaneity is important in your sex life. So sometimes you should just try to go with the flow and not be afraid to try new things.
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