He was my first ever boyfriend, and I was his second girlfriend. He also was my first man sexually, but I wasn’t his first experience. He never told me why he had broken up with his first girlfriend, despite my constant questions. He seemed to be embarrassed and only told me they called it quits soon after having s*x with each other. Now I seem to understand why.
Before marrying, we didn’t have s*x. I insisted, and he had no problem with it.
But it turns out, my husband has a very big manhood. I love him and I sincerely want to pleasure him, but every intercourse is so painful! So I try to avoid fulfilling my spousal duties, and that leads to conflicts. He apologizes every time for inflicting pain, but I’m dreading any new experience.
I don’t know what to. I’m too shy to talk it over with my Mom or sisters, or even the doctor. It may seem like a minor and even hilarious problem, but it’s not.
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I would advise that you discuss this experience with your spouse so that both of you can find ways of enjoying the sex with minimal pain and more pleasure. A solution can be using a lubricant or for him not to penetrate too deep or you relaxing and not being tense. Since you profess to love your husband, there is a proverb that says, 'Love conquers all things' I believe you should try and cope. A word of advice, don't tell your family as you and your husband will be a laughing stock but you can discuss this problem with your doctor.
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ReplyDeleted same applies to me ma manhood too big 4 ma wife,,we discus it and we were able to secure a sex position...me on top,not too deep penetration and make her wet by way of forplay b4 penetration ...enjoy ur marriage
discuss with your husband so both of you can find a position that will not hurt you so much and also talk to your doctor, he may prescribe something you could use to make it better. Lol
ReplyDeleteDiscuss with your husband, doctor? NO...your family? don't even go there. Women discussing their sexual life with male doctors have always lead to something else. God bless u my sister.
ReplyDeletePlease discuss it with your husband and try to make him understand the pains. Your family? don't go there at all. Your doctor? NO...women discussing their sexual life with especially male doctors have always lead to something else. Foreplay and lubricant are also recommended, infact my wife got one for us and we like it. You can as well try many positions. God bless ur marriage.
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